Tomodachi Life: Living the Dream

Relationships

Tomodachi Life: Living the Dream Relationship Levels & Rankings

At a glance

Press Y while interacting with a Mii, or select them in Residents, then open Relationship Rankings. Read both Miis’ views: relationship levels can be one-sided, and the highest label depends on the relationship category.

Open Relationship Rankings

Press Y while interacting with a Mii, or select the resident through Residents, then open Relationship Rankings.

Check the pair from both residents’ profiles. A high opinion in one direction does not mean the other Mii has the same level.

Relationship labels, from low to high

Category Lowest → highest
Acquaintances Not interested → Indifferent → Some interest → Getting familiar → Seems like-minded → Vibes with → Wants to be friends
Friends Not getting along → Kinda getting along → Friends → Good friends → Great friends → Best friends → Ultra friends
Sweethearts Not getting along → Kinda getting along → Really likes → Falling in love → In love → Super in love → Wants to marry!
Spouses Not getting along → Making it work → Happy → In love → Very in love → Super in love → Soulmates
Crushes Giving up → Close to giving up → Has some hope → Likes a lot → Crushing → Head over heels → Ready to risk it all
Family Not getting along → Kinda getting along → Getting along well → Cares for → Cares a lot for → Cares deeply for → Cherishes
Ex-sweethearts / ex-spouses Enemies → Tries to avoid → Not speaking → No hard feelings → On good terms → Still great friends → Would try again
Ex-friends Enemies → Tries to avoid → Not speaking → Strained → It’s complicated → Thinking about often → Hopes to make up

Strangers do not have a relationship level. After meeting, they become acquaintances. A seventh-level label in one category is not the same relationship as a seventh-level label in another.

Help a relationship develop

Put residents near each other, help with their requests and respond to arguments. Changes can also happen while you are away.

Orange and pink thought bubbles help you spot social and romantic requests; do not use the old game’s green-to-purple ranking tutorial for this system.

Real-world family or partner settings do not turn two strangers into in-game sweethearts. They still need to meet and develop the relationship.

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